Questions, Cards & Alarms

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Girl home from college on Spring Break this week. Our first night together. Dinner ordered in.  Pizza. Kid still likes pizza.  We small talk about her day. She’s resourceful. Motivated. She’s been up the coast applying for jobs. Two interviews and another scheduled for tomorrow. Summer work to support a trip she’s planning.

We talk about school. Mom asks questions. Kid doesn’t much like questions.  She’s trying to change her major. Mom isn’t sure it’s a good idea. Kid is sure she knows better. Kid feels questioned, challenged like mom doesn’t trust her. Mom thinks talking about it is important. It has to make sense. Decisions like these are big ones. We discuss.

Kid vacates the living room for the bedroom. Door closes.

Time passes.

Mom knocks,  “Wanna play cards?”

“Sure, I’ll be out in a minute.”

Laney, cards spring break 2016

We play her favorite card game – Speed.  She’s much speedier than mom. We laugh. We joke. We talk about nothing in particular. We eat chocolates and pickles. Soon we hear a sound like this.

Then, a twist in the form of a text from the PTO President:  “I’m sure you know but the fire alarm is going off at school.  Let me know if you need help.”

Support like this!  GIFTS abound at the Sweetest Little School by the Sea.

“Let’s go,” I say. Kid slips on her flip flops. We head out the door.

I get school police on the phone. We arrive, lights are flashing, alarm still sounding. No fire trucks in sight yet.  I unlock the gate to the playground, and we drive onto campus. I lock the gate behind us. It is late. It is dark save the nearly full moon. I call school police again not wanting to be alone in case someone who should not be here is here. We talk as two fire trucks pull up out front – lights on, sirens sounding.  My heart beat slows. I unlock the front gate to let them in. We check out the alarm in the front office. It indicates there has been a water leak in the lower building, bottom floor. We go together to check.  No water anywhere. The auto alarm resets. I thank the firefighters as they leave, grab some work from my office, lock up and get in the car.


It is then that I see them.  The fireflies!  California style fireflies.  They are these magical little light up fliers you buy at street fairs.  california firefly, spin copter

“We gotta do these!” I tell the kid.  Her eye flashes me a sparkle, “Okay!”  We pull down onto the playground and get out of the car.  “How do you do it?” she asks.  I show her.  She pulls and it flops to the ground.  “Try again,” I encourage. It takes a few times.  She does and soon she has them sailing high into the sky, spiraling down as she runs to catch them.

Laney, fireflies, spring break 2016

She lets me snap this picture, a remembrance of a wonderful night, questions and cards and false alarms.




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Principal at the School at the north end of Los Angeles Harbor where AWESOME happens. Working to make the world a little more wonder-full.
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15 Responses to Questions, Cards & Alarms

  1. jarhartz says:

    Wow so much in this post. Laney looks so grown up! What a night for you and your girl. Love.

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  2. Tara Smith says:

    A full and lovely evening – I loved the way you wrote this, as it happened, letting the reader infer so much.

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  3. terierrol says:

    I liked how your voice as you were writing. Sounds like a great night.

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  4. elsie says:

    Your daughter wears your smile. High points, low points, together moments, what an evening you had. Loved your voice and thoughts in this slice. Not sure I understand California fireflies, but it sounds like fun. (I asked Mike and he had no clue.)

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  5. aggiekesler says:

    Such a scary feeling when that alarm goes off! Glad it was just a false alarm. Your daughter seems very sweet. 🙂

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  6. margaretsmn says:

    Precious daughter! Such fun to play. I love having adult children.


  7. What a great post! I really love the beginning and how you showed the push and pull of the relationship between a mom and an almost-adult all the way through the piece.

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  8. Glad your evening had such a lovely ending. Delaney’s a lucky girl to have such a wise mom!


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