There is perhaps nothing better than helping young children learn to read. The wonder in a child’s eyes as she begins to understand that the pictures and words of a beloved book she knows by heart are written in those squiggly lines right there on the page is remarkable! Watching a child learn this secret is delightful to the child, parent and teacher alike.
Talking to a child from the moment of birth is the beginning of literacy. As we talk to them, children quickly come to understand much about the world.
I got to hold a seven-month-old over the weekend during a busy dinner party while her mother ate dinner and visited with other guests. Immediately Amelia and I fell into a cadence. Amelia would notice something in the room around us. She would lock her eyes on it and reach for whatever it was. As she did, I began telling her something about this new thing.
When Amelia noticed a flower arrangement, I said, “Vase. Leaf. Flower,” I repeated these words again and again, allowing Amelia to lead the way. As she looked from one part of the arrangement to the next, touching each part, I named them for her.
A baby’s ability to focus on a thing and explore it with eyes, ears, or fingers never ceases to amaze me. After Amelia had explored the vase, leaf, and flower several times, I pulled her back a bit. Then I said, “Vase.” Her eyes darted to the vase. Amazed and delighted, I said, “Flower.” Again, her eyes bounced up to look at the flower. We played this game until her attention wandered, and we moved on to something else.
I was struck by the powerful learning that opened to Amelia as I simply watched and responded to her. She led the way. All I needed to do was let her, then suggest a next step, something else she could know. She responded. She learned. Beautiful.
The value of “talk” and allowing a child to lead the learning! THANKS for the reminders that we can “see” if we just slow down and pay attention! 🙂
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What fun to observe that learning! Amelia is lucky to be exposed to opportunities of learning.
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Love the way this experience unfolded – for both of you!
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Thanks Tara. I did too. There is such beauty in learning together.
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I loved watching my children learn about their world. Their curiosity is at such a peak when they are little like that. What a fun experience for you – for both of you!
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What a joy to spend time with a little one and learn together!
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Hmm your teacher’s eyes show the huge importance of this seemingly natural act so many parents do with their infants. Beautifully written!
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Seemingly natural – for some. Big push to help parents know the importance of talking to their children. I think helping parents and caregivers and relatives info on the power of watching and responding to a child could be rewarding for all.
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May I just tell you how wonderful it is that you offered to hold someone else’s baby while they ate? I loved it when people did that for me and try to return the favor whenever possible. (I loved everything you wrote about teaching and literacy, but I had to pay homage to what you did since I found that a rarity when my daughter was small.)
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Stacey,
I remember the exact same thing. Unaware that you haven’t gotten to eat for caring for your child… I remember people saying things like, “oh, you’re still eating?” Aye! Looks like you are really enjoying your lit human! ☺️
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